1. What people bring to counseling is often not the real problem
2. The unconscious mind : friend or foe?
3. The mixture of unconscious forces and childhood wounds can be lethal to marriage
4. Your family problems may have started back in medieval times
5. Unconscious forces can destroy not only relationships, but whole families
6. People who feel divorced but are still married
7. Games people play in relationships
8. Organizing problem-solving conversations
9. Extramarital affairs : silence, secrets, and self-disclosure / Edward Igle
10. Addictions : a vain attempt to make us feel whole / Daniel Hoffman
11. Our nervous systems and relational problems
12. Emotional detachment : the ultimate relationship destroyer / Tami L. Grovatt-Dawkins
